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Post by darkenedangel on Aug 9, 2009 22:45:08 GMT -5
Ok so you all know i have been on a vacation at my dads' house for the last month. right? Well i came back today and when i looked at my bookshelf, the one with my SK and CF books on it, i noticed it was missing quite a few books. Now i am not one to forget ever loaning out a book and i know that i didn't loan out 10 books!!! So i was naturally pissed and wanted to know who the heck took MY books. I asked my mom and she said that my aunt had a few of them to read while she is in the hospital. I have no problem with that because my aunt needs something to do while we aren't at the hospital with her. So my mom told me that a friend of mine, Hannah had been over and had pretty much started reading my books without my permission! Now Hannah and i had a sort of falling out before i left so i was really pissed about her helping herself to my books but im not sure how exactly to handle the whole situation, because i don't want to totally blame her outright without hearing it from her but at the same token i don't want to talk to her face to face because i am so mad at her. I would never expect one of my old friends to take from me! The least she could've done was ask me. So yeah lots of drama....
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Post by darklover on Aug 10, 2009 7:48:20 GMT -5
first I would be ticked too... I understand how precious our books are too us and to have someone take them withot permission is just wrong!!!!
I would give her a call first... find out when she was over and why she took them, you dont have to do it face to face but you do eventually want to get the books back... I hope something good comes out of it and it all works out for you.
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Post by delphine on Aug 10, 2009 15:15:50 GMT -5
That´s annoying, yes - especially since you had a falling out before. But I agree with darklover, give her a call first and let her explain why she thought being able to take the books without asking.
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Post by darkenedangel on Aug 10, 2009 17:29:27 GMT -5
Alright so i called her and she said that she only took 2 of my books and she returned them. Then she asked if i would help her move and then after that she said that she needed to get off the phone because her mom needed her to get off the phone... Then today i also found out that my mom had gotten hannah a job and hannah the day that she was suppose to start, said she couldn't do it! Saying that her mom wouldn't let her! Well i know her mom personally and I believe that hannah is using her mom as a scapegoat. But the part that made me mad was that my mom bent over backwards to get her that job and she backed out!
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Post by voiceintheshadow on Aug 10, 2009 18:25:18 GMT -5
there is the issue that your mom went into your room and took your things and let them to people without asking and did your mom now that you and hannah and you had a falling out? this is something you and your mom need to talk about space and personal belongings (note with out yelling)
ouch i understand the tring to help someone out with getting a job and them messed up the interview, not only does it look bad at the person but you as well,
if you are close to hannah mom, why can you talk to her about hannah. if your not close enought hannah mom go discuse problems with hannah then use these experances as a learning one, also try not to get caught in the drama that some people need to cause to feel better about themselves feel better
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Post by darklover on Aug 10, 2009 19:53:45 GMT -5
I hope it all works out for you Dangel... it is never fun having a falling out with a friend and then have your moms get involved too...that is even harder.
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Post by darkenedangel on Aug 11, 2009 10:08:17 GMT -5
My mom knew that hannah and i had our falling out, but i guess this whole hannah drama really doesn't matter. I don't want to have to deal with hannah anymore. She and i don't get along at all and i just really, as much as i hate to say it, really don't want her in my life. She causes too much drama for me to deal with. Thank you all for your help and advice.
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Post by Cynthiax3 on Aug 12, 2009 18:36:45 GMT -5
Wow. I can't believe anyone would borrow your books without asking. All it would have taken was a phone call. And to borrow them knowing you had a falling out before you left was just wrong. I hope you got them all back Dangel.
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Post by darkenedangel on Aug 13, 2009 18:54:58 GMT -5
Well i am not getting my books back anytime soon. Hannah came over to my house unexpectedly 2 days ago and its a good thing my friend Casey was there otherwise well Hannah wouldn't have had a friendly welcome. She didn't go inside the house though. I stood in front of the door the whole time. She came up and wanted to see if my mom would give her a cigarette. I know my mom wouldn't but Hannah wanted to see anyway, but my mom was at work. Then she looked at me and asked "so you found your books yet?" I normally wouldn't get mad about what she said but it was the way she said it with and underlying pitch that just sounded like she wasn't really wondering where the books were, she knew. I might be over-reacting to it. But Casey heard it too. ARG why can't people just not take without asking! Funny thing was that even though i was had a falling out with her, i still wished her a happy birthday because i knew that all her family was out of town. So she could've asked me then.
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Post by Cynthiax3 on Aug 13, 2009 19:56:54 GMT -5
OH boy. I hope she doesn't have them. I hope they are just floating around the house somewhere.
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Post by darkenedangel on Aug 18, 2009 17:10:55 GMT -5
We cleaned the house.. no books anywhere. I cleaned my old room... no books anywhere. Ill just have to get them again.
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Post by Cynthiax3 on Aug 18, 2009 19:07:33 GMT -5
OH no. That so sucks.
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Post by darklover on Aug 19, 2009 7:49:49 GMT -5
so sorry Dangel... I hope that you find them at a discount store so that you dont have to pay full price for them.
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Post by Cynthiax3 on Aug 19, 2009 8:44:11 GMT -5
Good luck getting them for a cheap price.
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Post by darklover on Aug 19, 2009 11:58:47 GMT -5
that would be the whole thing too... once you get them you dont want to have to rebuy them... so finding them used and cheaper will help.
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